So at the very end of the book (like, with 10 pages to spare), Elio and Oliver do, in fact, end up together. Its written as a flash-forward, basically, and the two of them now live in the house where they spent that first summer.
Why do Elio and Oliver not end up together?
He implies at the end of the film, though, that his father would have put him in a correctional facility, so for Olivers father the romance would have been a strict no-no. This is the only valid reason I got for them to not be together. So the reason boils down to--Oliver couldnt leave his parents for Elio.
Who does Elio date in Find Me?
Michel Cadenza: Five years later, Elio works as a piano teacher in Paris. At a concert he meets an older man named Michel, and they begin a romantic relationship. They visit Michels childhood home in the French countryside, and end their relationship amicably several weeks later.
Does Oliver get married in Find Me?
The movie concludes with Elio weeping by himself in front of a fireplace. But Acimans novel has an entire section set 15 years after that summer. Elio visits Oliver at an American university town where he works and lives. By then, Oliver is married with two sons.